
I dreaded the one day each school year when I would have to teach idioms (phrases that say one thing but mean another, such as “missed the boat”). How do you explain something you don’t understand beyond a surface level? Fortunately, all it ever took was a few examples for my students to just run with it. Instead of making myself look like a fool trying to teach the concept, I had the kids each choose one idiom and write out its literal and actual meanings. Then they illustrated both meanings. When they were done, we bound the pages together into a classroom book of idioms.
Children and adults with AS tend to misinterpret idioms because we take these phrases literally. They’re tough to learn because no one ever stops to explain them! Just like other social rules, you’re expected to pick them up as you go along.
What Did You Say? What Do You Mean? by Jude Welton is an illustrated guide to the top 100 idioms. I like the simple format with illustrations, although if you look closely it’s the misinterpretation that’s illustrated. So I might ask children to illustrated the actual meanings separately. Each entry gives the meaning, origin, and examples of usage. The book is geared towards readers with AS, so the examples often model social skills and appropriate behavior, which is an added plus.
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So, it turns out taking things literally doesnt always help in the enterprise. Sometimes the boss will agree to something in front of other bosses, which I then go do, only to find out it was that tone of voice that means “not happening”.
People really should say what they mean and mean what they say, shouldn’t they? There were so many levels of interaction going on that you had to sort through there – 1) the actual words 2) nonverbal (he probably had some kind of look on his face), 3) tone of voice, 4) interoffice dynamics.
Do you have a buddy in your office who you can rely on to help you interpret these situations?
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Wow, what a cool book! I can imagine this is very helpful, as most of the idioms we use are WAY old. I have to explain many of them to my coworker for whom English is his second language.
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Nope, no peeps in the office who can tell me to quit fast enough. I kind of just have to learn as I go.
Maybe i’ll be able to train myself as time goes on…
I love teaching my son various idioms — at least they’re cut-and-dried, as opposed to the boss’s tone of voice, which is a whole other story!! I can’t even tell when my husband is serious or joking half the time.
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Back to say, one of the most helpful things I’ve taught my son recently is “rhetorical question.”
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How are you teaching him what a rhetorical question is? Or rather, how to identify one? It seems easy enough to get that it’s a question with no answer, but I’m curious how children learn what cues signal “don’t answer this question!”
Easy, if an nt asks it, I wait for a pause, which I figure means they want an answer.
That can be tricky…I can think of many instances where an NT might ask a rhetorical question and even look you in the eye while they pause, just to emphasize that they want you to think. Especially if you’re being reprimanded.
This is why I just closed my mouth and didn’t say anything if I thought there was a chance I was in trouble as a kid!
Well, if they didn’t want an answer, they shouldn’t ask a question. Especially since I will give them an answer whether I think they will like it or not.
It is especially fun to answer rhetorical questions in any case, as almost any answer is going to make someone laugh.
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