Archives for "May, 2009"

Posted by Sandy on 29th May 2009
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4 Steps to Being More Assertive

There are times when you can say “so what” and let something go.  There are other times when you need to speak up, whether it’s to defend yourself or to come to an agreement.  If you feel like you’re not being heard, you’re not alone. Why is it that others can express themselves so effortlessly [...]

Posted by Archkittens on 28th May 2009
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Logan: Animazing!

So, this is a bit of a deviation from my normal jazz, but I feel like it fits the overarching theme of the blog, which is to never let aspergers limit you. Last weekend (Memorial Day weekend), I went to a convention right here in Raleigh called Animazement. It is centered on Japanese and Asian [...]

Posted by Sandy on 28th May 2009
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How to Use Twitter for Autism Social Networking

Are you using Twitter?  How are you using it?  I’ve met a lot of people in the autism/Aspergers world through Twitter and think it’s an excellent way to meet people and interact with other people. Here’s how to do it: 1. Sign up Create an account on Twitter.  When you create your profile, think about [...]

Posted by Sandy on 27th May 2009
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Can You Learn Social Rules from a Magazine?

Since childhood, one strategy that worked for me has been reading magazines.  Whether or not I’m the target audience, it helps me understand what norms, rules, and trends are important in society.  I started as a child with my parents’ copies of National Geographic (not really helpful) and Better Homes and Gardens, and now tend [...]

Posted by Sandy on 22nd May 2009
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Learning To Say “So What”

When faced with a setback or insult, many children and adults on the spectrum tend to have a stronger emotional response than the situation calls for.  No matter how hard we try, we get an unpredictable response from other people.  It’s upsetting to try so hard and get so little out of it!  The natural [...]

Posted by Sandy on 21st May 2009
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Day 15 of Michael Buckholtz’s Hunger Strike

Have you been following Michael Buckholtz’s (from Aid for ASD Kids) Hunger Strike?  It’s not too late to start!  Yesterday was Day 15, and Michael had a can’t-miss video blog.

Posted by Sandy on 21st May 2009
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The Aspie Guide To: Birthdays

Birthdays are strange.  They’re such a big deal, but everyone has one.  (By the way, never ever tell the birthday boy or girl that “everyone has one”.  Guaranteed to win you dirty looks and you will never be invited to parties again.) Why participate in this ritual you don’t understand If you are more logical [...]