Archives for "May, 2009"

Posted by Sandy on 29th May 2009

4 Steps to Being More Assertive

There are times when you can say “so what” and let something go.  There are other times when you need to speak up, whether it’s to defend yourself or to come to an agreement.  If you feel like you’re not being heard, you’re not alone.
Why is it that others can express themselves so effortlessly and [...]

Posted by Archkittens on 28th May 2009

Logan: Animazing!

So, this is a bit of a deviation from my normal jazz, but I feel like it fits the overarching theme of the blog, which is to never let aspergers limit you.
Last weekend (Memorial Day weekend), I went to a convention right here in Raleigh called Animazement. It is centered on Japanese and Asian culture, [...]

Posted by Sandy on 28th May 2009

How to Use Twitter for Autism Social Networking

Are you using Twitter?  How are you using it?  I’ve met a lot of people in the autism/Aspergers world through Twitter and think it’s an excellent way to meet people and interact with other people.
Here’s how to do it:
1. Sign up
Create an account on Twitter.  When you create your profile, think about who you [...]

Posted by Sandy on 27th May 2009

Can You Learn Social Rules from a Magazine?

Since childhood, one strategy that worked for me has been reading magazines.  Whether or not I’m the target audience, it helps me understand what norms, rules, and trends are important in society.  I started as a child with my parents’ copies of National Geographic (not really helpful) and Better Homes and Gardens, and now tend [...]

Posted by Sandy on 22nd May 2009

Learning To Say “So What”

When faced with a setback or insult, many children and adults on the spectrum tend to have a stronger emotional response than the situation calls for.  No matter how hard we try, we get an unpredictable response from other people.  It’s upsetting to try so hard and get so little out of it!  The natural [...]

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