How to Shop Without Sensory Overload

Shopping is harsh on the senses, and with the holidays coming up you might be dreading the meltdowns that tend to happen at the mall. Here are some tips to help prevent holiday shopping disaster:
Avoid Crowds
Find out when stores will be less crowded. Stores tend to be empty at the beginning of the week, and you can always ask a salesperson or call ahead.
Shop online. You can scout out the selection before you go, which cuts down on a lot of time and stress. If the shipping and return policies are reasonable (always check first!), you might consider buying online.
Go Easy On the Senses
Choose stores that are well-organized. Department stores and other stores like Bed Bath and Beyond cram as many products as they can into a small space, which results in visual crowding. Not only will you not find what you want, but you’re more likely to have a meltdown from having to do so much extra work.
Take breaks to eat and drink. A hungry shopper is not a happy shopper.
Avoid stores with harsh fragrance, music, or lights. If you know which entrance of a department store the fragrance counters are at, enter and exit through a different door!
Simplify Your Shopping
Try a personal shopper. Some stores offer a free personal shopper service, and rather than being snooty it makes the shopping experience sane. You just let the store know you want to stop by and the shopper will put together a few things for you to try on without you having to search the store. If you explain your sensory needs, they’ll gladly pick out clothing that works for you and show you how to get the most out of your wardrobe.
Get a gift card. When all else fails, get a gift card. You don’t even have to go to the mall anymore; they have a huge selection at the drugstore. It’s worth it not to have a meltdown!
(photo: Christopher Chan)
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4 Responses
Great post. I hate shopping in crowded places. TJs is a nightmare on the weekend plus visual overcrowding! Shopping definitely overwhelms me at times.
Great tips! I would also add, “Whatever you do, stay home on Black Friday”. My mother & aunts used to drag me out on that day, at 5am or earlier, so that we could make a mad dash on the sales. It was horrible. I still remember one aunt getting into a fight with another woman for a VCR. OMG.
Anyway… my favourite way to shop is online.
I do all my shopping before Thanksgiving, and have done so for many years. Then, I retire into my hobbit hole until New Year’s Day and pretend that the madness doesn’t exist.
Another kindred spirit story. You are certainly not alone on this one. Time for my annual don’t-they-know-Christmas-comes-every-year-and why-can’t-they-finish-their-shopping-early?! rant! In fact I spend most of the year trying to avoid busy places and times in stores. My kids love to shop on Boxing Day (Canadian equivalent to Black Friday). I held out for many years, but they persauded me to go the last 2 years. I really do not want to do it again! The pressure is already mounting. Ack.